Everything is Sex

The African man is raising the vibration of everyone in the room with his drum He’s creating orgone (orgasm) energy He’s letting us plateau for a long time This is why Nora asked if dancing was sex It is I am raising the vibration too We all are It’s a co creation June Anais Nin … [Read more…]

The Sexual Revolution of the 60’s and 70’s Was the Tip of the Iceberg: Top 4 Ways We’re Still Sexually Repressed

My friend argues we no longer sexually repressed. I assume by “we” he meant modern Americans (and maybe Europeans, Canadians and Australians), but I am going to respond on behalf of civilized humans in general. Let me count the ways civilized humans are still sexually repressed: 1. Genital Mutilation. First consider that a good chunk … [Read more…]

The Calm Before the Storm

I haven’t written a Polyamory Diaries entry for a while. I guess the polyamorous part of me lies dormant for now. After preaching against “the naturalness of monogamy’ for two and a half years, here I am sexually and romantically monogamous for at least three months. Brad and I haven’t made any official agreement to … [Read more…]

Sorting Things Out with Ben

Sunday, September 17, 2017 Text conversation with Ben after, three weeks after Brad and I left on our RV adventure, a few days after returning to Asheville. Sara (2 pm): Is your pool still open? Sara (6pm): You’re not speaking to me now? Ben: If I wasn’t you probably wouldn’t be getting a response. But … [Read more…]

Why Women Don’t Put Out and What We Really Want

Conversation with a friend. Gabriel: There’s definitely a sexual hierarchy among men. Sara: I want to do away with the hierarchy and competition. I don’t think masculine has to mean competitive. ¬†Gabriel: That’s impossible — we’re not all equally attractive Women reproduce more successfully than men, as Dr. Peterson said. Sara: Reproduction is not success … [Read more…]