The Inconvenient Truth About Polyamory

Monogamy is not “natural,” I argued in a recent post. It’s a perfectly legitimate and sometimes admirable choice, but a huge challenge for most of us, as it goes against our animal urges and instincts. After reading the book Sex at Dawn three years ago, the most “natural” solution to the “problem of monogamy” seemed … [Read more…]

The Inconvenient Truth About Monogamy

It’s not natural. Before you blow your top, hear me out. I’m not saying it’s “not natural” in the sense religionists say homosexuality is “not natural.” I’m saying it in the same sense I would say eating grains is “not natural” – meaning you can do it, it’s just not going to be easy.

Hallelujah

The last 3 years of my life are best described by Leonard Cohen’s song Hallelujah: Your faith was strong but you needed proof You saw her bathing on the roof Her beauty and the moonlight overthrew you She tied you to her kitchen chair She broke your throne and she cut your hair And from … [Read more…]