How can I be in my head and body at the same time? Don’t know if I can, but I’m going to try one day.
“Connect with yourself!” Brad said after I whined “I’m just trying to connect with you guys!”
I get what he’s saying. He’s saying – “You don’t need me. Stop being codependent. You are enough. You are worthy.
But it’s hard for me to hear it that way. What I’m hearing is – “I don’t want you. Be independent. You aren’t enough to turn me on. You aren’t worthy of my attention.”
Maybe we’re both right. Maybe we both have something to teach each other.