Just start fucking more — a lot more, for a lot longer, and with a lot more passion.
Most men in America love to talk about sex, think they’re great at sex, and think their partners like fucking them. However, the truth is most women don’t have the long, body-clenching, earth-shattering orgasms they deserve, and neither do men.
Listen guys, this going to hurt, but if you’re not pleasing your partner in the sack, she’s probably not going to be pleasant with you in other areas of life. If you think she’s “bitching” at you over little things, you better start thinking about what’s going on between the sheets and between her legs.
So listen up. After 7 years and a child, sometimes it’s hard to find time and motivation to make love to my partner, but I’ve learned to make it a priority and so should you. If you haven’t made love to your woman in over three days, things are going to start to get rough around the house. If it goes past five, things could get nuclear. If they don’t, she’s probably fucking someone else. So get after her. But do it the right way.
What’s the right way you say? Well, the right way is when your partner is shaking like she has tremors from the sweet love making you just gave her. This means taking your time, working your way up the sexual mountain, climbing toward sexual ecstasy.
It isn’t easy, and sometimes you’ll stumble down. Like anything, it takes practice.
So fellas, the bottom line is you’ve gotta work up your stamina, you’ve gotta last longer in bed. You do this by edging (riding the wave of orgasm as long as you can, without going over the edge) and ejaculation control (learning to orgasm without ejaculation).
If within the first few minutes of lovemaking you feel like you’re going to bust, pull out, chill out, and give her some stimulation with your fingers, until you feel like you can penetrate again without coming.
During this time you’ll feel the energy building in your nether regions. It’s important to focus on moving the energy down there without expelling it. Try to bring it back up into your body. This is your life-force, your creative energy, your Chi — not something to be taken lightly.
Repeat this process until you know you’ve satisfied her. Eventually you’ll be able to have multiple orgasms without ejaculating or pulling out.
By holding onto your sexual energy you’ll be stronger, both physically, mentally and emotionally, and you’ll have insanely better sex. The longer you wait to come, the stronger and longer your orgasms get. This is the climbing of the mountain, and it’s best when you’re both doing it together. I recommend you keep climbing and climbing and then climb some fucking more, reveling in the orgasmic plateaus along the way.
Delay climaxing as long as you can – ideally for several sessions – so the energy just keeps building and circulating throughout your body. Once you can do this, you’ll be able to give her hours of orgasmic sex, causing her to come crawling back for more.
I personally have been orgasming without ejaculating for 7 days and feel stronger than ever, like I could bench press the world. My cock is getting bigger and bigger, the longer I wait, and I feel as potent as Paul Bunyan. I’m climbing that fucking mountain.
There are many different ways in which to climb the mountain. Sometimes during the climb she requires longer strokes from behind to get her going, but most of the time it’s shorter, rocking strokes she desires, with our bodies in close contact to each other for a long time — the penis almost fully submerged, gently, but firmly pulsating up against her cervix.
This is harder for the circumcised man, but can be remedied. With foreskin restoration, any man can grow back most of what’s been taken. The foreskin provides extra cushioning and lubrication and acts as a gliding mechanism, which allows for easier penetration and mutually satisfying thrusting.
This is especially important for well-endowed men like myself. If I just start banging away, I’ll blow her pussy out of the water, like a game of battleship, leaving her either numb or sore, and NOT wanting more.
Even though I’m not fully restored (it takes a good two years), with a little lube (coconut oil) and patience, ejaculation control has enabled us both to have some pretty mind-blowing orgasms.
Since learning to orgasm without ejaculation or “going over the edge,” we’ve make lovemaking a priority, because it’s more satisfying and rewarding for both of us.
No longer am I tired after sex, wanting to nap and be lazy. I’m energized and full of life.
When I orgasm without ejaculating, I find myself more affectionate toward and attracted to my partner, enjoying cuddling and kissing her, rather than feeling like it’s an obligation.
The lasting orgasmic energy makes me feel more present with myself and just enjoy life more. Trust me, it’s worth it. This is nature’s viagra.
They say “a happy wife is a happy life.” It’s true, and it all starts in the bedroom. If both your lives are happy and full of sexual bliss, others will take notice. Your friends will want to know your “secret.” When more and more people start catching on, the more we’ll all feel connected, to each other, to the earth, to everything. Not only will it make America great again. It will make the world great again.
For more detailed instructions on how to orgasm without ejaculation, see my girlfriend’s post – The Secret of Sexual Ecstasy: Orgasm Without Ejaculation
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