“If one of us must lose exactly as much as the other wins, as in poker, then we are talking about a “zero-sum game” … two more individuals are trying to achieve a goal that cannot be achieved by all of them. This is the essence of competition …” ~ Alfie Kohn, No Contest: The … [Read more…]
I’m ready for someone who’s capable of real love – for someone who is capable of being an adult in a relationship. I guess, for that, I need to learn how to be an adult in a relationship. Guess I should pick up the book again.