Feeling Like a Failure

I had such a good thing going with Brad. The last three weeks were the best of our almost-7-year relationship. We’d never been more intimate or gotten along so well. Wanting to further heal our relationship – that had recently come so close to ending – I volunteered to be monogamous until we felt solid … [Read more…]

Processing and Staying Strong

I’m so angry right now. I want to break things and then run away. I want to hurt him. I want to punish him. Ok, the anger is dissipating. I already feel better, just typing that out. Our friend, who is a therapist, was just here trying to facilitate an NVC conversation between us that … [Read more…]