Cervical Orgasms, Circumcision and Ableism

A couple of years ago I started having my first intense, long-lasting, cervical orgasms. It was during intercourse with a man with a partially restored foreskin. While I know there were several other factors at play, I have since determined the partial foreskin was a significant one. Sex coach Kim Anami describes the difference between … [Read more…]

The Inconvenient Truth About Polyamory

Monogamy is not “natural,” I argued in a recent post. It’s a perfectly legitimate and sometimes admirable choice, but a huge challenge for most of us, as it goes against our animal urges and instincts. After reading the book Sex at Dawn three years ago, the most “natural” solution to the “problem of monogamy” seemed … [Read more…]

The Inconvenient Truth About Monogamy

It’s not natural. Before you blow your top, hear me out. I’m not saying it’s “not natural” in the sense religionists say homosexuality is “not natural.” I’m saying it in the same sense I would say eating grains is “not natural” – meaning you can do it, it’s just not going to be easy.