A couple of years ago I started having my first intense, long-lasting, cervical orgasms. It was during intercourse with a man with a partially restored foreskin. While I know there were several other factors at play, I have since determined the partial foreskin was a significant one. Sex coach Kim Anami describes the difference between … [Read more…]
It’s not her fault… or his 75 percent of women can’t achieve orgasm from penis-in-vagina sex alone. In other words, if a woman is “getting off,” it’s usually before the penis goes in or after it’s pulled out, with a helping hand or tongue. No one seems exactly sure why this is. It’s a frustrating … [Read more…]
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Monogamy is not “natural,” I argued in a recent post. It’s a perfectly legitimate and sometimes admirable choice, but a huge challenge for most of us, as it goes against our animal urges and instincts. After reading the book Sex at Dawn three years ago, the most “natural” solution to the “problem of monogamy” seemed … [Read more…]
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It’s not natural. Before you blow your top, hear me out. I’m not saying it’s “not natural” in the sense religionists say homosexuality is “not natural.” I’m saying it in the same sense I would say eating grains is “not natural” – meaning you can do it, it’s just not going to be easy.
“If one of us must lose exactly as much as the other wins, as in poker, then we are talking about a “zero-sum game” … two more individuals are trying to achieve a goal that cannot be achieved by all of them. This is the essence of competition …” ~ Alfie Kohn, No Contest: The … [Read more…]
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